Oct. 18th, 2013 10:47 pm
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I'll try to talk about this a little without making it about me, or without hurting anyone involved. My friend has given me permission to talk about this, and I have to say something because this is too heavy to carry without some outlet.

A child died. A very loved, three year old boy died. He was my friend's sister's boy.

It matters a lot to me, not just because I love my friend and anything that affects her affects me too, but because it comes so close. My parents lost their four year old boy a year before I was born. I grew up in a family that had suffered such a loss, and it's made me... loving towards people. I can't really explain how or why, but it's made me aware of the sadness in people.

I've talked with my mother a lot about my dead brother because she is the same way... Her immediate reaction is the need to help, the need to offer some affection, warmth, love, understanding... Anything to soothe the pain. So she's been telling me things, and I've shared them forward to the family who has lost their child.

Some things are solid walls. Nothing but time can help you get past them. There's nothing you can say, and you say it anyway. Because it's compassion.

I hope my words and thoughts give them something, that my love towards my friend can be felt through everything I do or say. She means the world to me, and if I could I would carry her.

To anyone who's ever suffered a loss, who's ever felt like there is no hope, I want you to know that someone always cares. Please, find that someone and let them walk with you. <3

Date: 2013-10-18 08:10 pm (UTC)
lovenhardt1: (Default)
From: [personal profile] lovenhardt1
*hugs you so hard* I have no words for you, just love...

Date: 2013-10-18 09:12 pm (UTC)
pegs223: (Default)
From: [personal profile] pegs223
You have a beautiful heart. I wish that you had been around when I lost my son. <3

Date: 2013-10-19 12:26 am (UTC)
thraceadams: (Rizzoli and Isles)
From: [personal profile] thraceadams
You have such an amazing heart. *HUGS*

Date: 2013-10-20 07:55 am (UTC)
jeweledvixen: (A Adam Head Down Rainbow)
From: [personal profile] jeweledvixen
You're an amazing person with such a beautiful heart and soul. I'm sure your friend and her sister feel better having you there for them. **HUGS**


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